Review: Summy and Izzy in a Tizzy

Summy and Izzy in a Tizzy by THEA LYNN PAUL
My rating: 4 of 5 stars

Melissa's Musings:

*I won a copy of this via Goodreads Giveaways*

This is a short and simple children's book. It has a nice rhyming scheme that works well for new readers. The story is very basic, I felt there could have been a little more to it.

The interesting thing about the illustrations is that they are done with alcohol inks, which gives them a very unique look.

I imagine I'll be passing this book on to my youngest niece when she is old enough to read.

Do you have a favorite children's book?

Review: Star Cursed

Star Cursed by Jessica Spotswood
My rating: 4 of 5 stars

This book certainly picked up the pace more than the first one did. I found the pickup spot a little jarring, actually.

This part of the trilogy has me feeling more for the burden Cate has placed upon herself, and the sacrifices she's made. Maura, is definitely my least favorite character, especially with all her petty jealousy, deception, and malice. She's power hungry, and corrupted. Tess is still sweet, though not so innocent anymore, given her situation. I can't say much or I'll give things away, but I still think she's my favorite of the three.

There are many secrets, and some betrayals in this book. We finally learn a bit more about Cate's family and her mother, although not much. The alternate history setting is still a bit unusual to read, but intriguing.

A lot of the story feels like set up for the third book, and while it moves fast, it did get a bit repetitive.

The last scene while not completely unexpected, had me angry for Cate. It's going to be quite the journey to the end of this war the Cahill sisters are fighting and I am interested to see how it ends.

I recently purchased the third book in the series and am waiting for my online order to arrive, so I'll get to see how it ends relatively soon

Review+Giveaway: Candy and the Cankersaur

Title: Candy and the Cankersaur
Author: Jason Sandberg
Publisher: Jason Sandberg E-Books
Published: June 12, 2012
Format: Kindle
Pages: 32
Date Read: April 20th, 2015
Source: Received from the author
in exchange for an honest review.
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My Rating: 4 Stars

Synopsis:
This is the sweet and funny tale of a young girl named Candy and a Cankersaurus Rex! Candy receives a dinosaur as a gift and is determined to train him to be a good pet.

Melissa's Musings:

I don't often read children's books, but I'm glad to have read this one.

Just as the synopsis says, this is a sweet story. Candy is a little girl who's father is a busy man. He buys Candy lots of toys, but he knows that her toys don't make her happy, so he buys her a dinosaur to be her companion. 

Candy also has a neighbor named Chucky, who wants her to notice him, so they are always in competition with each other about who can get the biggest and best toys. Chucky is very jealous of Cank, so he sells him to the circus. Candy is very upset and they go on an adventure to rescue him. 

The story has a lot of different lessons embedded in it. First and foremost, money can't buy happiness. Even though Candy has all the latest and greatest toys, they aren't making her happy. Her father realizes theat as well, which is why he knows she needs a friend. Although, what Candy ultimately wants is to spend time with her father, which is something that many kids have experienced in today's hectic times, where either one or both of their parents may work.

Chucky learns that he needs to think before he acts, because in selling Cank, he hurts Candy's feelings, when all he really wants is for her to notice him. 

And, there are general rules that are good for little ones to learn at a young age, like "No biting!"

This is an adorable story with lovely illustrations. I'd especially recommend it to any child who loves dinosaurs.

And now, lets have a giveaway!

Mr. Sandberg is kindly giving away 10 Kindle copies of Candy and the Cankersaur.

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Winners will be notified within 72 hours of the giveaway ending, and will have 48 hours to respond before alternate winners are chosen.

Mr. Sandberg, not Melissa's Midnight Musings, will be responsible for the sending of the prize. A list of the  winners will be sent to him, so that he can send out the copies.


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Book Tour Review: Her Loving Husband's Curse

Hello fellow readers I must start with apologies as I was supposed to have this review posted some time ago and had a scheduling mix up on my end. Read on to discover my thoughts about this book.

Title: Her Loving Husband's Curse

Author: Meredith Allard

Series: Loving Husband #2

Publisher: Copperfield Press

Published: April 20, 2012

Format: Kindle

Pages: 284

Source: Received from Author in 

exchange for an honest review

Synopsis:

How far will you go to protect the one you love?

Finally, after many long and lonely years, James Wentworth’s life is falling into place. Together with his wife, Sarah, the only woman he has ever loved, he has found the meaning behind her nightmares about the Salem Witch Trials, and now they are rebuilding the life they began together so long ago.

But the past is never far behind for the Wentworths. While Sarah is haunted by new visions, now about the baby she carried over three hundred years before, James is confronted with painful memories from his time with the Cherokee on the Trail of Tears. Through it all, the persistent reporter Kenneth Hempel reappears, still determined to prove that the undead walk the earth. If Hempel succeeds in his quest, James and Sarah will suffer. Will the curse of the vampire prevent James and Sarah from living their happily ever after?

Her Loving Husband’s Curse is Book Two of the Loving Husband Trilogy. Book One, Her Dear & Loving Husband, is now available from Copperfield Press

Melissa's Musings:

My Rating: 4 Stars

I was pulled in from the very first page. I was immediately enthralled with James and Sarah's story. Their love story is very romantic, but not too overly done. It's simple realistic, and true.

I have the first book on my kindle, I had purchased it a while ago when it was free on Amazon. I had hoped to read it before I read this book for the tour, but I ran out of time. Her Loving Husband's Curse works well as a stand alone novel, but I did feel a slight lack of connection as I knew there was more to the story and that there were details that I was missing. The lack of cohesion in the story from my not being able to read the first book in the series in time was very slight, and not enough to detract from my enjoyment of the book.

I always enjoy when an author incorporates smells, colors, and other small touches into a story. Here it was smells. The author pointed out that Sarah's "smell" for James was strawberries and cream, and that their daughter Grace smelled like cinnamon. As much as I enjoyed this detail, I did feel that it was mentioned a few too many times and was over done.

There is a great deal of history that is intertwined with this story, which makes it both an enjoyable and somewhat educational (in a sense) read. I paid close attention to the author's descriptions and references to the Trail of Tears. It's not something I remember learning much about in school so those parts were particularly interesting.

I also enjoyed all the different paranormal elements and characters that are woven into this series. There are vampires, witches, werewolves, and ghosts. Sometimes such an eclectic mix of paranormal characters can make a story crowded. That's not the case here. I think this may be due to the fact that the author does such a good job of seamlessly weaving the paranormal aspects into the story overall that you really focus more on the characters as they are, not what paranormal species they are.

This is a thoroughly enjoyable series. I look forward to reading this series in its' entirety and to reading more from this author.

Review: Maggie's Turn

Hello everyone! Welcome to my stop on the Maggie's Turn blog tour. Read on to learn more about this book and my thoughts on it.

Title: Maggie's Turn

Author: Deanna Lynn Sletten

Publisher: Createspace

Published: August 5, 2013

Format: Paperback

Pages: 246

Source: Received a free copy in exchange 

for an honest review

My Rating: 4 Stars

Synopsis:

Maggie Harrison is a devoted wife and mother, always putting the needs of her family ahead of her own. Then, one day, without planning to, she drives away, leaving behind an indifferent husband and two sulking teenagers. Maggie goes off on a quest of self-exploration, enjoying adventures, meeting new people, and rediscovering her passions. For the first time in years, she dreams about what she wants out of life, and she realizes that her deteriorating marriage can no longer continue as it is. Can she and Andrew repair their floundering relationship, or is their marriage over?

Andrew Harrison likes his life to be in perfect order. He enjoys his work and status in the community, leaving Maggie to take care of everything at home. He knows his marriage isn't perfect, but after twenty-three years and two kids, whose marriage is? When Maggie leaves without a word, he is forced to start paying more attention to his home life and his almost grown children, and he begins to do a little self-exploration of his own. Slowly, he begins to understand what drove Maggie away, and how important she is in his life. Is it too late to resolve their differences and save their marriage? Or will Andrew lose Maggie forever?

Melissa's Musings:

This book was easy to read. I felt for Maggie, and definitely understood her sense of wanderlust. I think everyone has a bit of that need to wander off and escape life's problems. There's no better way to think through things than on a road trip. I've never been on one, but reading this story made me want to take one. I thoroughly enjoyed Maggie's connection to Bob Seger's music and appreciated that she let the music take her away, quite literally.

Maggie has a lot to deal with, being that her husband cheated on her and just wants to sweep it under the rug. My gut reaction to Andrew was that he was a condescending, arrogant, controlling jerk. And while he did have some improvement throughout the book, I can't honestly say that he won me over at the end. I think he had it too easy, and his apologies were bit too rehearsed for my taste. 

I did appreciate that the story broached the subject of Andrew's affair and Maggie's leaving from both the parents and kid's views. I know from personal experience that it's no fun and no one usually asks the kids when a parent leaves, for whatever reason. Discussing the kid's feelings helped Maggie to realize what's important.

There's also a neat theme of Maggie meeting several people who also have some variation of Bob in their names. This was a neat quirk of the book which was done well. Subtle, yet cohesive. There were certain friendships that i was rooting for, but didn't happen, but that's okay.

I'd recommend this one to anyone who wants to travel or reminisce about times long ago.

Review: Depression and Your Child: A Guide For Parents and Caregivers

Welcome to my stop on the tour for Depression and Your Child: A Guide for Parents and Caregivers by Deborah Serani. This tour is presented by Pump Up Your Book.  Read on to learn more about this insightful book and my thoughts on it.

About the Book:

Title: Depression and Your Child: A Guide for Parents and Caregivers

Author:  Deborah Serani

Publisher: Rowman and Littlefield Publishers

Published: September 16, 2013

Genre: Self Help, Parenting

Source: Received via Netgalley from the publisher in exchange for an honest review

Format: Kindle

Pages: 242

My Rating: 4 Stars

Synopsis:

Seeing your child suffer in any way is a harrowing experience for any parent. Mental illness in children can be particularly draining due to the mystery surrounding it, and the issue of diagnosis at such a tender age. Depression and Your Child gives parents and caregivers a uniquely textured understanding of pediatric depression, its causes, its symptoms, and its treatments. Author Deborah Serani weaves her own personal experiences of being a depressed child along with her clinical experiences as a psychologist treating depressed children.

Current research, treatments and trends are presented in easy to understand language and tough subjects like self-harm, suicide and recovery plans are addressed with supportive direction. Parents will learn tips on how to discipline a depressed child, what to expect from traditional treatments like psychotherapy and medication, how to use holistic methods to address depression, how to avoid caregiver burnout, and how to move through the trauma of diagnosis and plan for the future.

Real life cases highlight the issues addressed in each chapter and resources and a glossary help to further understanding for those seeking additional information. Parents and caregivers are sure to find here a reassuring approach to childhood depression that highlights the needs of the child even while it emphasizes the need for caregivers to care for themselves and other family members as well.

Melissa's Musings:

This book is full of a lot of useful information. Depression is unique to each individual that experiences it, and this book has information on a variety of methods of treatment. It covers everything from talk therapy, to medications, to nutrition, to aromatherapy and more. The book also discusses warning signs of depression in children and also how to approach and talk with children about their experiences and feelings.

I think the variety of treatments discussed throughout  is one of the highlights of this book. Not every treatment method works for every child. This book has a lot of options and ideas, so that parents and caregivers can find something that works for their child. The variety of options adds and extra element of positivity to the book. Depression is tricky to deal with, and it can't be addressed the same way for each person. I think the fact that there are so many different options covered is very helpful to parents and caregivers because not everyone looks at depression from all angles. Some professionals only look at it from the viewpoint of medication and talk therapy, and that's it. This book provides alternative treatments. I also enjoyed that the author does not try to say that any one type of treatment is better than another, just that all of the options are meant to help supplement the overall goal of helping the child to feel better again. The different options are all "tools in the toolbox" for managing depression. I'm very much a big picture person, and think that this wide range of options is particularly helpful for anyone who is trying to help a person suffering from depression.

 Another thing that helps make this material more accessible is the fact that the author intersperses her own experiences with depression into the book as well. I always enjoy when non-fiction books have the authors own experiences written along with the material because it shows that they really relate to the subject on a deeper, more personal level.

While the book itself focuses on children, the material is easily applicable to adults as well. One quote sparked quite a realization for me personally, when I read it.

"Introverts require a certain amount of quietness in their life. Introverted children expend a lot of energy being with others, which can leave them feeling tired and setting them into meltdown mode, which can certainly look like depression." (Location 220-221)

I am an introverted person by nature, and I have always enjoyed quiet time alone. On really busy days, or after long days at work I find myself exhausted and looking forward to just being able to come home and sit in the quiet. Reading this quote helped me to realize that it's because I'm an introvert by nature, but everyday life requires a lot of interaction with others, which is also great, but can be tiring. So, I look forward to getting my alone time to recharge.

One thing that I noticed about this book is that if you are reading it on a Kindle it may be somewhat difficult to read the charts and tables that are used in the book, just due to space and formatting.

This is a great book with lots of valuable information and resources. I highly recommend it for anyone interested in psychology.

Review: Salem VI: Rebecca's Rising

Title: Rebecca's Rising

Authors: Jack Heath, John Thompson

Publisher: Pressque Publishing

Published: July 16, 2012

Format: E-book

Pages: 336

Source: Received from publisher/author

in exchange for my honest review

My Rating: 4 Stars

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Synopsis:

Having stepped off the fast track of primetime network television news, John Andrews has chosen a quieter life as editor of Salem News, a small paper in a quiet New England town. Life is perfect until Andrews’ wife is killed in a tragic accident. After several years of trying to numb the pain with alcohol, Andrews is visited by the spirit of a long dead ancestor who opens a door to a shocking family history. After he experiences a surreal glimpse into the past, Andrews must confront the question of whether he is losing his mind or whether for several hundred years his ancestors have been engaged in a secret battle with a coven that worships Satan. Fueled by the need to understand whether his wife's death was really an accident or something far more sinister, Andrews, along with his beautiful assistant editor, risk everything to discover a truth so horrifying it threatens to destroy everything and everyone he knows and loves.

Melissa's Musings:

If you've been a reader of the blog for a while, you'll know that I love books that have to do with witchcraft and magic. Mainly because I like the character's exploration of their history and their powers, if there are any. While there were some powers, they were kept to a minimum, and this book focused mainly on the historical aspects of the story. The fact that one of the authors is descended from these two families makes it more realistic. I'm not sure if this adds to the story for me, or not though. I don't think it effects my enjoyment of the story itself at all, it's just one of those neat facts to hold on to and remember about the book.

I read The Crucible in high school and remember that Rebecca Nurse was a central character in that story. She plays a central character here too, only this time in ghostly form. At first her character is a little unsettling, as she just makes John seem like he's losing it. But once you get into the heart of the story, you see that Rebecca Nurse is a powerful character, even if she doesn't actually say anything at all.  

The rest of the cast of characters is equally interesting. All I'll say is that  almost none of them are what they seem, based on first impressions.

I read this story in short bursts, as it was my go to book on my Kindle during lunch at work. I was always left wanting more, and wish that I had been able to read it all at once. The fact that I couldn't read it all at once helped me to enjoy it even more.

The story itself is really engaging. I don't think I've read a story that has a character descended from two powerful families like these in quite a while. I enjoyed seeing the reach of these families and their effect on a town in modern times. Part of what I enjoyed were the intricacies that come with being descended from such powerful families, and the other part was learning about all of this important history in the context of a modern story. I also like that this story focused more on the history and less on powers. I got more of the "why they did it" kind of back story, and I like that.

While there are some blips and minor inconsistencies, they don't detract too much from the story. The story is blended together quite well, and I couldn't really tell that it was written by two different authors. The plot itself is full of action and adventure. There are some tender moments too, but I have to admit that some of these fell short for me. There is a bit of romance between John and Amy, which is subtle. While the subtlety is nice, I wish there had been more to it. I'm hoping that this will be explored further in book two.

Overall, I thoroughly enjoyed this book and am excited to see what follows in book two of this series.

Have you read this? What are some other books about witchcraft that you would recommend?

Review: Pretty Is As Pretty Does

Hello fellow readers!

I am thrilled to be part of the book tour for Pretty Is As Pretty Does. Read on to find out more about the book and read my thoughts on it.

Title: Pretty Is As Pretty Does (Class Reunion #1)

Author: Debby Mayne

Publisher: Abingdon Press

Published: June 1 2013

Pages: 304

Format: Paperback

Source: Received in exchange for an honest review

My Rating: 4 Stars

Synopsis: 

Priscilla Slater goes to her ten-year high school reunion with equal parts dread and eager anticipation. Even though she s a successful owner of a chain of hair salons and no longer has the mousy brown hair, crooked teeth, and discount-store wardrobe, she still feels like the ugly duckling. But when she arrives at the reunion, Priscilla soon realizes that her old classmates aren't exactly as she remembers them. With humor and a just a touch of sassiness, Priscilla finds herself facing her own truth and she may be surprised at what she discovers

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Melissa's Musings:

Reunions are supposed to be nostalgic, in a way.  A chance for you to relive your high school memories, meet up with old friends, compare lives. That's what happens here. But, with a bit of a twist, so to speak. Throughout the planning and preparation for the reunion, old feelings, and old rivalries and even old crushes are brought to the surface.

At times, you might even think the characters were back in high school all over again with the way they behaved. But, as the novel progresses, so do each of the characters. They learn from their mistakes, realize they aren't in high school anymore, and start to grow up and move forward.

The book is told from multiple perspectives, with labeled chapters, which works really well here. You get to see the reunion from people from different "cliques" perspective. And also from Tim's (who's an outsider to the graduating class) so that makes it really interesting. It reminded me of The Breakfast Club as I was reading it.

All of the characters were really well developed and had distinct personalities, even the secondary characters. And they all experienced growth, even just in small ways. Priscilla is a strong main character. She's determined, knows what she wants and goes after it. She's not without her weak moments, especially when it comes to Maurice, but she is also one smart girl so she's able to see through the haze of his good looks and charm and recognize what he really is before he ends up hurting her.

I felt the most for Tim, as he's so smitten with Priscilla and would do anything to be in her good graces. She doesn't really give him much in return though. She's a good friend, but that's all she wants to be, and he wants more. Since this is a series, there may be more that happens between them, which I'm interested to see.

There are some religious undertones to the story, so if that isn't your cup of tea, be forewarned. They are very subtle, and light.

The antics of this group make me glad that I didn't have to go to my ten year reunion (which was supposed to be this year, but I don't think anyone planned anything.) After reading this, it seems like more stress than it's worth. While it would be fun to reminisce with some people I haven't seen in a while, I don't think I'd like the pressure of having to prove myself, or feeling small when those same popular, successful people walk into the room.

Overall, I thoroughly enjoyed this book. If your looking for a cast of unique characters, complete with Southern charm and hospitality, this is the book for you. I'm glad this is a series, because I can't wait to see what all of these characters get up to next.

Did you go to your ten year high school (or college) reunion? Or, do you plan to?

About the Author:

Debby Mayne has published more than 30 books and novellas, 400 print short stories and articles, more than 1,000 web articles, and a slew of devotions for women. She has also worked as managing editor of a national health magazine, product information writer for HSN, a creative writing instructor for Long Ridge Writers Group, and a copy editor and proofreader for several book publishers. For the past eight years, she has judged the Writers Digest Annual Competition, Short-Short Contest, and Self-Published Book Competition. Three of Debby’s books have been top ten favorites by the Heartsong Presents book club. Love Finds You in Treasure Island, Florida received 4-1/2 stars from Romantic Times Magazine, and was named a Top Pick for the month of July 2009.

You can visit Debby Mayne’s website at www.debbymayne.com.

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Review: Hello Hot Lunch, Hello Cold Lunch

Title: Hello Hot Lunch, Hello Cool Lunch

Author: Lisa Leconte

Publisher: VirtualBookworm Publishing

Published: April 16, 2013

Format:  Paperback

Genre: Non-Fiction

Pages: 138

Source: Received in exchange for an honest review

Read: July 7, 2013

My Rating: 4 Stars

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Goodreads Synopsis:

Hello Hot Lunch, Hello Cool Lunch is now serving 2 books in one. One side is full of fun and uber cute hot lunch ideas, tips, and recipes. The flip side serves up fun cold lunch ideas with more tips and recipes. Your family and friends will crown you Royal Lady of Lunches after enjoying your new-found creative foodie genius.

Melissa's Musings:

My first thoughts on seeing this book were "How cute!" Which is perfect since sections of the book itself are described as cute.

There are lots of delicious, healthy, fun recipes for kids included in this book. There are helpful tips about substitutions and additions to the recipes, where to find certain ingredients and how to create these picturesque foods.

The recipes are quick and easy, though I don't think they'd be too lunchbox friendly. If you want them to look neat for the kids, it's probably best to make them on a day at home, not a school day.

Also, some of the recipes look complex, and somewhat daunting, so if you're not a particularly creative type of person, these may not be the greatest of recipes.  They are all relatively simple, so you can try out some of the easier ones like the soups and keep trying until you can get to some of the more involved recipes.

There are also some great recipes, as well as several unique sandwich filling ideas, to add variety to your meals, which is always a plus.

Overall, this is a fun, cute, easy to use book full of great recipes and pictures. A must have for parents with young kids.

Review: Abundance Triggers

Hello fellow readers!

Welcome to my stop on the tour for Abundance Triggers by Kanta Bosniak, hosted by Pump Up Your Book

Title: Abundance Triggers: How to Shift Yourself Into Prosperity Concsciousness Instantly!

Author: Kanta Bosniak

Publisher: Createspace

Published: August 2nd, 2011

Pages: 174

Source: Received in exchange for an honest review

My Rating: 4 Stars

Synopsis:  

Learn how to put yourself in abundance consciousness instantly and consistently, making happiness your "new normal" and co-creating the life of your dreams! Kanta Bosniak is a soulful voice for finding within ourselves what has really never been lost: ourSelves. In her groundbreaking new book Abundance Triggers, she offers unique and self-affirming tools that we can use to "trigger" the knowledge of our essential nature and living our lives more abundantly. -Rev. Nancy J. Oristaglio, Regional Representative for the Southwest Region, Unity Worldwide Ministries, Sr. Minister, Unity of Antelope Valley This book is chock full of easy-to-follow ideas for a life of success and happiness! I was amazed at how author Kanta Bosniak included so much great information and still made it so conversational, exciting and fun. I think it's going to change people's lives in amazing ways. From now on, this is my go-to book for recognizing the abundance in my life and creating even more. -Lisa Plummer, Montessori Teacher and Soul Collage Facilitator Abundance Triggers is a wonderful tool box of ideas and inspiration to help regain the quality and vitality of the life we desire...Author Kanta Bosniak skillfully weaves information and story, and provides opportunities for creative self-expression as you move through your own renewal. -Heather Rodale, Founder, Healing Through the Arts Abundance Triggers resonated with me on every level and every cell of my body knows this is truth. It is my hope that millions of people will read this book and experience their shift, moving into a place of everyday miracles. -Stacy Hairfield, Publisher, Natural Awakenings Magazine, Southwest VA Edition

Melissa's Musings:

I thoroughly enjoyed this book. I must admit that as I first started reading it, I got nervous that it would be "preachy" once references to God and higher powers were made. I was very pleased that these references were very generalized and even keeled, so I didn't feel preached to or anything like that. And that is true of the entire tone of the book, not just those particularly spiritually oriented parts. Each of the activities are presented in a way that's not forceful, just as suggestions, that you can take or leave.

This book is full of a lot of useful tips and exercises that the reader can use to infuse more positivity and positive thinking into their life. Some of them are on the more creative side, like making a collage mandala with pictures of your loved ones. Others are more reflective, like meditation options or journaling questions. The wide range of options will appeal to many different readers.

One of the aspects that I enjoyed most about the book is that the author incorporates some of her own abundance stories into the book, as well as those of individuals in her life. It helped me to relate to the material better, and connect with the author, which I appreciated. 

One of my favorite sections was one toward the end of the book that touches on the meanings behind certain colors. My favorite color is purple, and according to the author's suggestions of the meanings of colors purple represents transformation, forgiveness, prosperity, depth, and integrity. These are things that I am working on in certain areas of my life, so it's very relevant.

There are some nice illustrations to go along with the material, and those help to reinforce the ideas.

If you are a person who is looking to increase positivity in your life, this book will definitely help. I wish I had stopped to do more of the excerises on my first read through, but since I didn't, this book will definitely be getting another reading (or two) from me.

Review: Finding Compassion in China: A Bicycle Journey Into The Countryside

Title: Finding Compassion In China: A Bicycle Journey Into the Countryside

Author: Cindie Cohagan

Publisher: Drifting Sands Press

Published: June 25, 2012

Genre: Non-Fiction, Memoir,

Format: Paperback

Pages: 242

Source: Received from author in

exchange for an  honest review.

Read: May 7-16th, 2013

My Rating: 4 Stars

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Goodreads Synopsis:

By the time Tim and Cindie entered China, they had been traveling the globe by bicycle for three years. Cindie was ready to explore China’s interior, but what she wasn’t prepared for was the intense isolation that comes with not speaking the language, the scheming tactics of the Chinese government and the unexpected outpouring of kindness from the locals. Along the way the duo was arrested by the Chinese government, turned away from the only hotel in Siziwang Qui, thrown out of Internet cafes and called late at night by prostitutes. Yet whenever they needed food, shelter, or directions, the local people were there and willing to help—even if that “help” was scary at timesBy the time Tim and Cindie entered China, they had been traveling the globe by bicycle for three years. Cindie was ready to explore China’s interior, but what she wasn’t prepared for was the intense isolation that comes with not speaking the language, the scheming tactics of the Chinese government and the unexpected outpouring of kindness from the locals. Along the way the duo was arrested by the Chinese government, turned away from the only hotel in Siziwang Qui, thrown out of Internet cafes and called late at night by prostitutes. Yet whenever they needed food, shelter, or directions, the local people were there and willing to help—even if that “help” was scary at times.

Melissa's Musings:

I really enjoyed this book. The writing style is very simplistic, much like I imagine the method of journeying around the world on bicycles must be. The writing style encompasses and demonstrates the author's desire for a simpler life. A life consumed with less "stuff" and more actual living, and enjoying the little things life has to offer.

The story flows easily from one road adventure to the next, with lots of personal stories and anecdotes thrown in. When the author started to speak of her loneliness and distance from her then husband, I really felt for her. I can't imagine what it would be like to be in a country where I didn't speak the language, and having my traveling partner, the one person who I could communicate with distance themselves from me, would be difficult. I'm very curious about personal details in stories like these, so I was wondering about what happened between Cindie and Tim during that time, but there wasn't much of the dialogue and goings on between them within the book. I completely understand this, because their personal relationship issues are between them, but I must admit I was curious about the nitty gritty of what drove such a wedge between them and had them ending up going their separate ways.

The book also showcases some of the wonderful historical and spiritual sites that areas of China and the nearby countries have to offer. I learned a great deal from reading through the author's experiences at these sites. Cohagan also talks about how she found what she had been missing in the form of Buddhism on her travels throughout China. It must be wonderful to have taken such a grand, once in a lifetime trip, and also have such profound personal spiritual growth as well.

The book also makes the reader stop and think about whether they really need all the things they have, and whether they could get by with less. It also makes you appreciate the freedoms we possess that others around the world don't necessarily get the chance to enjoy.

I would definitely recommend this to anyone who likes books about travel and culture


*I received a copy of this book in exchange for my honest review. I was not in any way compensated for this review.*

Review: Ramblings in Ireland

Title: Ramblings in Ireland

Series: N/A

Author:  Kerry Dwyer

Publisher:  Someday Box

Published: August 15, 2012

Genre: Memoir

Format: Kindle

Pages: 179

Source: Received From Author

Read: March 7-9th 2013

My Rating: 4 Stars

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Goodreads Synopsis:

This is not a book about rambling in Ireland.

It tells the tale of one particular walking trip and the memories and musings it inspired.

Exploring the West of Ireland is a time for meditation, spiritual reflection and strengthening the bonds of life. More practically the ability to read a map might have proved helpful. The tourist office in Ireland has all their paths clearly marked. You can’t go wrong if you follow that little yellow man. Or can you?

As British ex-patriate Kerry Dwyer leads Bertrand, her trusting French husband, astray once more, they reminisce and reflect upon accents and accidents, family and friends, love and what it means to be alive. Bertrand doesn’t mind getting lost – he loves Kerry all the more for going off the beaten track.

This is a book about ramblings in Ireland. Walk with Kerry and Bertrand and follow where your thoughts lead you.

Melissa's Musings:

This is a very easygoing read, just like the title might suggest. The reader follows Kerry and her husband Bertrand on their walking trip through Ireland. In addition to great scenery, you get little snippets of their personal life with different stories that are mixed in throughout the chapters.

This is the kind of book that I love because it intersperses personal anecdotes with information. You get to learn about the great sights of Ireland, but at the same time you get to know more about the author on a personal level. Sometimes with non-fiction pieces I often get the feeling of informality, but not here.

I really enjoyed the author's comparisons of the differences between aspects of French and English (British) cultures. I really related to this given that my boyfriend is Canadian. Having had the chance to live in both Canada and the US, I definitely know what it's like to be of one culture and experiencing another, and the differences that you can encounter.

One of the examples that Dwyer uses is a reference to idle chit chat. Britons like to chat with people, to ask how they are doing, etc. whereas the French are more direct and don't tend to chit chat with one another. Dwyer's husband was also very excited by the fact that in Ireland the houses are all painted unique combinations of bright, cheerful colors. In France, house colors must fall within a range that has been approved by the French government.

One thing I noticed is that at times, the interactions described in the book do seem somewhat stiff, even formal. Most of these are the interactions between Kerry and her husband. I'm just wondering if some of that is... I'm not even sure how to put this, language interspersment issues? Since Dwyer knows both French and English, but lives in France, where my guess would be she mainly uses French, maybe some of the formality of the French language is coming through in the writing?

There's an element of fun, easygoingness to this book in the fact that Kerry and her husband do get lost from time to time. They have as much fun getting lost as they do when they aren't, which is enjoyable to see.

This is an excellent travel memoir that will give you a glimpse of the scenery of Ireland just as if you were walking the journey yourself.

Review: The Adventures of Stanley Delacourt

Title: The Adventures of Stanley Delacourt

Series: Hartlandia #1

Author: Ilana Waters

Publisher: Self Published

Published: August 10, 2012

Genre: Children's-Middle Grade

Format: Kindle

Pages: 244

Source: Received from author

Read:  February 23-25, 2013

In A Few Words: Questions authority

My Rating: 4 Stars

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Goodreads Synopsis:

Ten-year-old Stanley Delacourt loves his quiet life in the peaceful village of Meadowwood. At least, he does until his best friend is killed. Then the town library—where Stanley lives and works—is burned to the ground. The individuals responsible for both tragedies are a nasty group of soldiers. They work for the kingdom’s new leader, Christopher Siren. With the grown-ups too fearful to take action, Stanley vows to confront Siren. He plans to get answers and demand justice. Little does he know that his journey will involve sword-wielding knights, kidnapper fairies, and dark magic.

Stanley has only two allies back home: a witch named Meredith, and a young apothecary called Sophie. Can they help him discover the reason behind Siren’s crimes and end this terrible reign? Or is Stanley set to become the next victim in the tyrant’s evil plot?

Melissa's Musings:

This is a great adventure story. It begins with Stanley's work in the library, so I was instantly hooked, just based on that alone. There aren't enough stories that prominently feature libraries, so this was such a refreshing change.

The setting and language of the story is wonderful. It's easygoing, and comfortable. As I read I was immediately able to fall into Meadowood and imagine myself there, right along with the characters. The setting seemed like a mix of olden times (think medieval times) and more modern times.

The story starts out simply enough, Stanley, Sophie and Will enjoying a boat race together and a festival, but you can tell that there's something going on by the odd soldiers milling around. Then, when Will is killed after being out after "curfew" and then the library is burned down, Stanley knows he has to do something. He sets off on a quest to find out who the new ruler in place, Christopher Siren is, and what happened to the old king and queen. 

He faces a lot of trials and tribulations along the way. He also runs into all different kinds of magical creatures. There are subtle elements of magic throughout the story, right down to the very boots that Stanley is wearing. There's talk of vampires and vampire wars, witches, fairies, and much more. 

The magical element is perfect. It's done with just enough detail to keep the reader interested, but not so much as to overwhelm them. Sophie finding out she is a witch is also very fitting, given that she already has a job as an apothecary, and likes to write poems, it seems quite the natural fit that she becomes a witch. I particularly enjoyed the spin of her spells coming to her in her sleep, and her thinking of them more as poems than anything.

As Stanley gets further on in his journey, he is kidnapped and forced to work in one of Siren's factories, where several kids are nothing more than glorified paper pushers. Literally, they put papers into boxes. And they don't question it. They don't want anything more for themselves but to earn shiny metal discs and the promise of a better position if they earn enough of them.

At first Stanley tries to resist this, and tries to ask the others about their dreams, and whether they know that they are being forced to do these things for nothing, and give up on what they really believe in. But after an incident he too becomes numb and just goes along. You later find out that Hartlandia is under a spell. I thought this was a great way to demonstrate the fact that children should learn and think for themselves. They should question authority and not just do everything they are told. The story also demonstrates how easy it can be for kids to just forget about their dreams and "go along" if they are restricted enough.

This story is the perfect combination of magic, adventure, friendship, and the trials and tribulations of growing up. I can't wait to see what comes next in Stanley's adventure. I'd recommend this to lovers of magic, libraries, and easygoing characters/settings.

Blog Tour Stop: Before You Say I Do Again by Benjamin Berkley

Hello fellow readers!

Today I'm going to be sharing my thoughts on Before You Say I Do Again: A Buyer's Beware Guide to Remarriage! by Benjamin Berkley.

Title: Before You Say I Do Again: A Buyer's Beware Guide to Remarriage

Author: Benjamin H. Berkley

Publisher: Frederick Fell Publishers

Published: September 1, 2009

Source: Received a free copy as part of a blog tour.

Synopsis:

Bookshelves are filled with warm and fuzzy titles authored by psychologists and family counselors. Their message is to teach how to listen to each other and improve the relationship. "Before You Say I Do, Again!" is not a how to book to get back together or to stay together. Instead it takes the gloves off and provides insight as to the issues one must consider before walking down the aisle a second time. Tackling a serious subject, but presented in a sometimes whimsical fashion, "Before You Say I Do, Again!' puts the brakes on the wedding ceremony and provides the reader with the questions that must be answered before you drive down the path of destruction.

My Rating: 4 Stars

Melissa's Musings:

Judging from the title you might think that this book is useful only if you've been married before and are considering taking that plunge again. That's not the case.

I've never been married, and while reading I was able to identify a lot of useful information that would be helpful to talk about within my own relationship. I also gained a lot of insight into the issues that couples fight about most often, and why it is that most marriages and remarriages fail. A lot of it has to do with not working on yourself as a person. 

A lot of times people want to put a lot of blame on their ex as being the reason that their marriage failed instead of accepting the fact that they were in part, also responsible, and that they need to work  on themselves and improve before they consider taking that trip down the aisle with someone else.

The book is really well laid out in terms of the chapters being clear and concise. There are  a lot of questions in each chapter that you can ask yourself and your partner to make sure that you are on the same page about things. This covers a wide range of subjects like finances, emotional health, physical health, legal ramifications etc.  I felt that the author was really trying to help people figure out their motivations for remarrying and steer them in the right direction, not by preaching one correct way to do things, but by getting people to really think about why it is that they want to get married again. Since the author is a lawyer, the influence is heavy on the legal ramifications of different aspects of remarriage, but it's not overwhelming, just consistent advice for a variety of situations.

One of the great things about this book is that there are a lot of example situations woven in with the more technical information. I feel that this made the book much more palatable. If it had been just statistics or dry, informational material, I probably wouldn't have enjoyed it as much as I did. With these examples mixed in it really gives a more clear picture of the point the author is trying to make and helps the reader relate to the information more easily. Plus the author takes a somewhat informal tone that shows that he's not just spouting off information but really just trying to help by sharing what he's learned.

The tone is very cautionary, which might make it seem like the author is against marriage, but that really isn't the case. What I took from it is that he's trying to help people avoid re-marrying for the wrong reasons, like wanting to be financially comfortable, or getting married again just because they're used to living with someone, and things like that. The main lesson I came away from reading this with is to always trust your gut. If something doesn't sit right with you about someone you're romantically interested in, it probably isnt. And while some of the questions this book asks you to consider might be awkward to bring up, if you are in a truly loving and comitted relationship you will be able to talk them through without much difficulty.

Blog Tour Stop: Rally Round the Corpse Review and Giveaway!

Hello fellow readers!

Today I'm hosting a tour stop for the fantastically funny mystery, Rally Round the Corpse. Read on to see my thoughts on the book and enter to win your very own copy!

Title: Rally 'Round the Corpse

Author: Hy Conrad

Publisher: Seven Realms Publishing

Published: May 29, 2012

Formats: Paperback, E-book

Pages: 337
Source: Received from author in exchange
for my honest review as part of blog tour

Synopsis:

It's been two years since her fiancé's death. Amy Abel needs to start over. What better way for a shy, risk-averse woman to start than to sink all her savings into a travel agency specializing in adventure? Her first project is a mystery road rally through the European countryside. At the starting line in Monte Carlo, Amy finds herself attracted to Marcus Alvarez, the most mysterious of her two dozen game-loving clients. But the rally gets off to a rocky start when an eccentric writer, the only person who knows the game's solution, is himself murdered back in New York. Who would kill a harmless mystery geek, and why are weird accidents beginning to happen along the way? To her horror, Amy discovers that this fictional mystery was based on a real, unsolved case, one that Marcus knows too much about. Now she has no choice but to join forces with Fanny, her domineering mother, and solve this on her own, before the killer strikes again.

My Rating:

4 Solid Stars!

Melissa's Musings:

I have to admit, I'm not a big mystery fan. But, when I got the invitation to be on this book tour, I jumped on it because the plot seemed like a lot of fun. Who could pass up the chance to read about a traveling expedition based around a mystery game? Think, Clue but more adventurous.

The great thing about this story is that there isn't just one mystery to solve. There are multiple mysteries, and not all of them are fictional. One of the fun details in this book is that the mystery for the rally tour is based on a real crime. And that's where things get tricky. A few of the people on the tour were individuals who are in some way connected to the real crime. 

Everyone in this book has secrets. Especially Amy, the tour director. There are things she doesn't want to admit to herself. Like how she feels responsible for her fiancee's death. And how she is starting to have feelings for Marcus. The romance between Marcus and Amy is by no means simple, but it is sweet. They fit well together. They also clash just enough to keep you wondering if they're really right for each other.

I really enjoyed the variety of characters in this book. There are a lot of them, but the great thing about the structure is that you aren't overloaded with details,or confused by the sheer number of the characters. They are all well fleshed out, and have separate, distinct personalities. A few of my favorites have to be Holly and Fanny. 

Holly is a snarky, smart twelve year old, who's accompanying her uncle on the mystery tour. She's bold, and not afraid to speak her mind. I felt bad for her, since the tour was full of adults and she always seemed to be getting pushed to the side, but she managed to hold her own.

Fanny is my favorite because she loves a challenge. She's the master of persuasion, and a great extractor of information. She sells honeymooning couples African safari trips without batting an eye. Dress up in a wacky disguise and make claim to taco recipes to get close to an important family? She'll do it. Fanny gets so engrossed in the roles that you'll find yourself laughing out loud when she adds in unneccessary details, or hatches crazy plans like having Marcus escape detection by sneaking out into a neighbor's garden and through their house.

She's also a bit of a meddler, at least when it comes to Amy's love life. As mothers are apt to be, I suppose. This could have gone either way, and this personality trait could have come off as really annoying, but actually it's very sweet, and you can see that for all her meddling, she really has Amy's best interests at heart.

I don't know if it's just because I don't read many mysteries, or the fact that I got so swept up in the story, but I definitely did not have this one figured out by the end, at all. There are some unique twists and turns and some oddball characters that really keep you on your toes.

A great story for anyone new to mysteries or someone who's already a big fan.

*I received a free copy of this book in exchange for my honest review.*

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Review: The Wedding Cake Girl

Title: The Wedding Cake Girl

Author: Anne Pfeffer

Publisher: Bold Print Press

Published: July 24, 2012

Format:  PDF

Genre: YA

Pages: 255

Source:  Won in a giveaway @Getting Your Read On

Read: January 6, 2013

In A Few Words: Simple yet engaging

My Rating: 4 Stars

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Goodreads Synopsis:

Seventeen year old Alexandra spends so much time helping others realize their dreams that she never has time for her own. An expert ocean diver and reluctant maker of wedding cakes, she longs to leave roses and frosting behind to study oceanography. Alex’s mother won’t have it—needy and dependent, Mom can’t run the family wedding cake business on her own.

No matter what Alex does, things only get worse for her. When she risks her life to save a tourist while scuba diving and becomes the local hero, Mom's angry with Alex for going diving at all. Mom also discourages Alex's new friendship with the insanely wealthy Jeremy, a fun boy with a secret. Then, Alex's best friend, Zack, a hunky island guy, starts to take an interest in her as well. The problem is, he's dating another girl.

As Alex struggles to learn where she stands between her two difficult and confusing Prince Charmings, it occurs to her that maybe what she really needs is a Prince Charming for Mom. If she doesn't do something, she will make cakes all her life and die in her "Sue's Wedding Cakery" apron with a spatula in her hand.

This story features a colorful island setting, dangerous underwater diving adventures,a family of billionaires, and lots and lots of buttercream. It is Alex's journey toward not only finding love, but learning how to step forward and take control of her own life, a rite of passage that faces all young readers.

Melissa's Musings:

This was a great story. I got pulled in right away, primarily because the dialogue flows so easily, you're quick to get wrapped up in the story. Right away we meet Alex, a girl with big dreams, to study marine life, but who has a mom that just can't seem to get it together.

I have to admit I felt really sorry for Alex. Here she is, at 17, with big dreams, of going to college to do what she loves, and at the same time she's hesitant to leave because she doesn't think her mom will make it without her. And at first, as the reader, I thought she might not make it either. The more I read though, the angrier at Alex's mom I became. She was so self involved, and so... just plain rude to Alex I found myself thinking at one point "man, her mom is a leech." 

She takes Alex for granted, and what's worse, she almost ruins opportunities for Alex by refusing to help her. First it's by refusing to pay for her to attend a summer course to help set up her senior thesis. Then, it's by telling her that she won't give her a  ride to attend a wedding that she's been asked to help out at. (The reason why she's been asked to help out is a major plot point so I don't want to spoil it.)

But, the thing about Alex is that she's determined. Her mom won't help? Fine. She'll do it herself. She makes it to that wedding and that sets the course for the rest of the story. Alex is a strong character, which is always a good thing and I would say in this case, necessary, in order for her to be able to deal with her mother.

 Alex also stands up for herself and her principles which is nice to see. There's a point in the book where her and her friend Zack become romantially involved, and she feels like she may be ready to have sex with him. (There are a lot of factors to this, including other characters, and again I don't want to ruin it.) But, as time goes on, she realizes she's not ready and she lets him know that. Zack is disappointed, but Alex stands her ground and that's something I really enjoyed.

Alex also grows a lot personally. She turns her dislike for the wedding cake business into a skill that works for her and allows her to live out her dream for her senior year the way she wants it to be. She learns to take more risks and it's nice to see her enjoying the benefits.

Overall this is a great story. It's wonderfully written and you are immediately drawn to the characters. And anyways, any story that has wedding cake in it can't be bad.

Review: The Persecution of Mildred Dunlap

Title: The Persecution of Mildred Dunlap

Author: Paulette Mahurin

Publisher: Self Published

Published: January 1, 2012

Format: Paperback

Genre: Historical Fiction

Pages: 202 pages

Source: Received from the author

in exchange for an honest review

Read: January 4-5, 2013

In A Few Words: Enlightening, Entertaining

My Rating: 4 Stars 

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Goodreads  Synopsis:

The year 1895 was filled with memorable historical events: the Dreyfus Affair divided France; Booker T. Washington gave his Atlanta address; Richard Olney, United States Secretary of State, expanded the effects of the Monroe Doctrine in settling a boundary dispute between the United Kingdom and Venezuela; and Oscar Wilde was tried and convicted for gross indecency under Britain’s recently passed law that made sex between males a criminal offense. When news of Wilde’s conviction went out over telegraphs worldwide, it threw a small Nevada town into chaos. This is the story of what happened when the lives of its citizens were impacted by the news of Oscar Wilde’s imprisonment. It is a chronicle of hatred and prejudice with all its unintended and devastating consequences, and how love and friendship bring strength and healing.

Melissa's Musings:

Let me start off by saying that historical fiction isn't a genre I normally read much of as I find that at times the stories can be dry and more focused on the history than the story. In this case, it was reversed and I was pleasantly surprised.

There are a lot of historical events incorporated into this novel, like Oscar Wilde's imprisonment, sovereignty issues, and racism. They are incorporated in such a natural way that you are immediately drawn into the story.

The story focuses on two women, Edra, and Mildred, who are cousins. They are also lovers. After hearing of the imprisonment of Oscar Wilde for gross indecency, they begin to fear that the true nature of their relationship will be, and they discovered and they will have to suffer the consequences of hateful prejudice. Mildred comes up with a plan to divert the towns attention from them, and begins courting a man named Charley, who has just lost his wife to illness.

Aside from the secret of  Edra and Mildred's relationship, there is a lot of animosity toward Mildred, as she is very wealthy and has a hold in many of the major aspects of the town. There are many women who are jealous of her money, and put her down by talking about her looks and mannerisms.

The characters in this novel are all very realistic and approachable. It's very easy to be drawn in to their world. As you read, you find that they all have their own secrets to hide. This paints a somewhat bleak (on the part of the general population of the town) picture of the closed mindedness of the time.

Mildred and Edna's relationship is very sweet, and very simply portrayed. You can see how much they care for one another in the way that they speak to each other and always have each other's best interests at heart. They find it difficult to let people into their lives but they manage to let a few select people in who are very trustworthy.

One thing that I really enjoyed were the Oscar Wilde quotes at the beginning of the chapters. They were all relevant and fitting to the chapters themselves. There are also numerous mentions of several classic books. You have to love when an author can incorporate other great books into their work. I learned a lot about Oscar Wilde from reading this novel. Many of his quotes resonated with me, just because they are such common sense, and yet still so true.

Some of the plot points are easy to guess at, but you won't really mind because the rest of the story is easy to get swept up in.

This is a simple, yet powerful story about family, love, friendship and what it means to truly trust and care for those around you. I would recommend this to anyone who's hesitant to read historical fiction because it will pull you right in.